how attracting women works

Men have a lot of issues when it comes to attracting women. The advice from friends and families about how you need to "just be yourself" isn't going to get you very far. Here's what you do when attracting women. First off, stop trying to make her like you. There's a weird paradox going on called the "paradox of passion" where the more you try to make someone like you, the further you push them away. I believe it boils down to coming on too strong and making the woman feel a weird vibe. Second, don't worry too much about how she thinks of you. Instead, have fun with her. Make jokes about how she's going to be such a horrible girlfriend because she complains too much or how she's going to embarrass you because she keeps tripping on carpet. By having fun with her you'll start to create some attraction with her. Lastly, man up. This is the best tip about how to attract women. Women only like strong men. Stop trying to get her to lead and start leading all your interactions with her. Become the pillar of strength for her and you'll go far.